HOPING SOMEONE ELSE WILL CHANGE

Wednesday, July 08, 2009


No doubt, you've heard the story of the doctor who was deeply worried about his patient.

"You're in terrible shape," he told him, "and you've got to do something about it.

"First, because of your high blood pressure and cholesterol, your wife is going to have to cook you healthier meals.

"Second, you're going to have to stop working so hard.

"Next, you're going to make a budget and she has to stick to it.

"Finally, she should make love to you anytime you want.

"And," he concluded, "unless these changes are made, you're going to be dead in thirty days."

"Doc, the man answered with a smile, "could you please tell my wife all this--because coming from you, it will sound much more official."

The man returned home, looking forward to the good life he was about to enjoy. When he walked in the door, his wife rushed up to him and said: "Oh, honey. Your doctor told me the news. I'm so sorry. You poor thing. I'm really going to miss you!"

So much for hoping someone else will change.


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From The Power to Change Today by Gregory Dickow. Click here to read my review and the chance to win a copy of this book.
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4 comments:

SmilingSally said...

That's right; the only person we can change is ourselves.

Loren said...

too funny and oh so true...we always want someone else to change and not ourselves!

but when we realize we can only change ourselves.....it's a huge "aha moment" ....unfortunately some never get there.

Yellow Rose Arbor said...

Cute story! No we can't change others, oh if only we could, there would be a lot more nice people in this world! LOL!

Katherine

Anonymous said...

We (me) sometimes want to change people but if we change ourselves first there is usually no need to change others
rickmc@recn.ca