MY MOTHER PLAYED THE PIANO

Saturday, June 06, 2009

John William Smith is one of America's best storytellers. The following is a story of his and the name of one of his books, My Mother Played the Piano. I have edited it for length.
My mother played the piano. She played mostly by ear, I think, but she often looked at the notes too. She played "Red River Valley," "When My Blue Moon Turns to Gold Again," and Mexicali Rose"--but mostly she played church songs.

Sometimes when I came in to get a drink or some needed thing or to ask if I could go farther than normal, she would say, "John, come here and sing this with me." She didn't say it like a command or an order or anything--not like when she said, "Go clean the chicken coop," or "Go hoe the garden." She would just say it like a request or like she would appreciate it as a favor. I usually didn't want to. I was afraid my friends would hear through the open windows--or , worse yet, that they would ask, "What took you so long?" And I would have to say, "I was singing some church songs with my mother."

When I did sing with her you can't imagine how excited she would be when we finished. "Isn't that the prettiest song you ever heard?" She would exclaim. If I thought it was something less that that--I certainly kept it to myself. Sometimes I was so sullen that she would slowly close the book, pat me on the shoulder, and say, "You go on back to your friends, now. We'll do this some other time." I don't know how many times it happened before I noticed that when I went back outside, I didn't hear the piano or singing any more that day.

It wouldn't have cost me much--and it meant so much to her. I look back with regret and tears for my insensitivity.

Sometimes in my mind I can see that old white house with the white curtains moving at the open windows; and through those open windows, I see those nimble fingers moving on the keys, and I hear her voice.
"There's a land that is fairer than day, And by faith we can see it afar; For the Father waits over the way, To prepare us a dwelling place there. In the sweet by and by, We shall meet on that beautiful shore.

"Come on, John," she coaxes. "It will only take a minute." And in my mind I say "I'm coming Mom," and I rush to her with joy because I know how happy it will make her.

And it is, you know, the most beautiful song I ever heard.

HALF A BRAIN

Friday, June 05, 2009

Anyone with half a brain knows that decisions have consequences.


Galatians 6:7 says, "...What a person plants he will harvest."

And yet we continue to blunder along making the same crappy mistakes over and over.

We don't go down the road we know is right. We go down the one we think will make us happy.

*Young couples want financial security and yet spend money like it is going out of style.

*High school students want good grades and be able to get into college but fail to study.

*We say we want to grow spiritually but we never pray, read the Bible or go to church.

*We never  discipline our children but expect them to be well behaved.

If I hear one more person say, "I don't know how I got into this mess," I think I'll scream.

I may scream, "Damn it look at the road you've been on. Where did you think it would lead?"

Anyone with half a brain knows that you reap what you sow.

START LIVING IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION

Wednesday, June 03, 2009

BOOK REVIEW --THE PRINCIPLE OF THE PATH--How to get from where you are to where you want to be by Andy Stanley


This is not a self-help book but it is a book that will help anybody who reads it. Stanley is not offering a formula. He doesn't provide you with seven steps. What he does do is bring to your attention a dynamic that is operating in the background of your life and the lives of the people you love. The principle of the path impacts your life every single day. He says, "And like any principle you can leverage it for your benefit or ignore it and reap a harvest of regret."

The principle of the path is: Direction--not intention--determines our destination.

"The direction you are currently traveling--relationally, financially, spiritually, and the list goes on and on--will determine where you end up in each of those respective arenas. This is true regardless of your goals, your dreams, your wishes, or your wants. The principle of the path trumps all those things. Your current direction will determine your destination."

The Principle Of The Path is a book that every young person needs to read. I wish I could have read a book like this sixty years ago, when I was fifteen. I know it would have made a difference in my life and I hope it will make a difference in your life too. But reading the book is just half of the story. You must embrace the principle of the path. Following this path is the key to avoiding regret of all kinds. "Stand at the crossroads and look; ask for the ancient paths, ask where the good way is, and walk in it, and you will find rest for your souls" Jeremiah 6:16

It's not too late. No matter where you are in life you can profit from reading and following the directions in this book. I recommend it as one of the most practical and helpful books I have read in years.

PARADISE VALLEY

BREAKFAST: Off the grill. On the patio. By the pool.

A slight, cool breeze was blowing as I hovered over the hash browns and scrabbled eggs on the grill.

The birds were singing in the trees. The billowy clouds hung high in the sky.

I smiled as I bit into a piece of crusty toast.

Does it get any better than this?

Probably! But who needs it? Not me.

They don't call this area Paradise Valley for no reason.

SIN CITY?

Tuesday, June 02, 2009

I have gone to Las Vegas for many different reasons.

I spent a week there once preaching in an evangelistic meeting. There are many great Christians there and many churches--large and small.

Over the years I have stayed there in some of the best resort hotels in all the world.

I have been there to shop in some of the finest stores in the world.

The quantity and quality of food in Las Vegas will "blow your mind."

Did I ever go there to sin? No!

I know there is no need. I can do all the sinning I want to right here in Scottsdale. There is no need to make the trip.

Is Las Vegas sin city? Only in the mind of the person calling it that.

Well is there a whole lot of sinning going on there? Yes! Just like there is in Scottsdale.

If you want to stay in one of those nice resorts. Now is the time to go. The prices are unbelievably low.

Just want to sin? Go on over if you want to. But why not just stay around home? It's a lot cheaper.

On second thought. Why not just change your reason for going? That way, what happens in Vegas doesn't have to stay in Vegas. You can come back home bragging about that "mountain" of shrimp and lobster you ate for an unbelievably low price.

THE SOUNDS OF SUMMER

Monday, June 01, 2009

The sounds of splishing, splashing, and squealing can be heard from almost every backyard on the cul-de-sac.

We do some splishing and splashing at our house, but very little, if any, squealing.

That all may change very soon. The weatherman says that June 15 is the official date for the beginning of the monsoon season in the big valley.

Charlotte always seems just a little embarrassed by all my squealing.