THE PROBLEM

Friday, December 07, 2007

Ask yourself, “What have I contributed to this problem?” Many people assume that any problem they are having must be someone else’s fault. Once you are willing to accept responsibility for the problems in your life, you will see obvious solutions that take very minor adjustments to change.

It’s really not all that helpful to contemplate the faults of others. Rarely can you do anything about other people and the way they do things. It’s best to make changes in your own responses.

I’m not suggesting that everything is your fault or that you should spend too much time thinking about your faults. It is important, however, that you’re honest about your contribution to your problems. Look in the mirror with humility and honesty and ask yourself, “What have I contributed to this problem?”

Have a good day!